Guys guide dating geek
2 View All Next »This is the week that I decide to alienate more than half of my audience. However, geeks, like all other creatures, crave love, acceptance, intimacy and companionship.
It’s notoriously difficult to pull a geek outside of his comfort zone; the world hates and fears him, therefore why should he have anything to do with the world outside of the tiny slice that values him.
A happy middle ground, where you talk and you touch, slowly going through the checklist, is the way to go. As mentioned in last week’s post, there’s a small window when you first meet someone where you define how your relationship is going to be.
This goes really well with my favorite opening line, where I just introduce myself and shake hands.
You follow this up with light touches that are short and in a non-erogenous zone, like the elbow or shoulder.
If you come on too strong, or grab her ass off the bat, you’re probably going to come off as horny and desperate. If you just talk, and don’t get flirty or touchy, you’re going straight to the FRIEND ZONE.
If you wear suits made of Neutron-90, and fight the Black Widows, you’ll end up in the SPIRAL ZONE. And if you feel this post helped you in some way, do me a favor and share it with your friends?