Internet dating scientists
Then (after ignoring several of his initial emails) I went out with a great guy. Because it worked out for me, I often get asked about internet dating — Did I like it? But a study out today on internet-based marriages has got me thinking more deeply about my experience.
I think it’s just as difficult to meet someone online as it is offline.
Of course the researchers admit online dating helps singles meet more people more quickly.
When I started internet dating, in December of 2006, I was embarrassed about it.
Why would any self-respecting 22-year-old, after all, want to wade through a virtual pool of creeps and weirdos?
But studies show that the strongest predictors of solid relationships are a couple’s live interaction style and ability to handle stress.Data about characteristics like personality and attitudes cannot accurately predict how that real life interaction will function.The scientists also note that online profile photos are poor proxies for the chemistry sparked by meeting in the flesh.Online dating might give you something, but it's probably not a soul mate.Most sites rely on what’s called an "exclusive process"—they use an algorithm to find romantic matches based variables, from interests to fetishes.