Teenage dating counseling
You made me understand that in a town like this, a bad reputation is something that will follow you for the rest of your life.Pastor John told me something that I already knew; that sex outside of marriage is a sin (I didn’t know that a Pastor could talk about sex).You told me I had to copy down your list of questions at the top of my letter, and then completely answer each one of them, (especially that one about what my punishment should be); so here goes: I am also supposed to tell you that I understand that if this letter does not properly answer all of the above questions, then I will have two days to rewrite it, and those two days will be added to my two-week restriction.Also, if you think that the punishment I suggest for myself is too mild, then I will also have to go in your bedroom to take a bare-bottom spanking, before I write you a new punishment letter with a stricter punishment in it. I promise you I will think up a really good punishment the first time!That would not be fair because it would have been something I did to myself by being bad.If I got pregnant…well I just don’t want to think about that!I was curious what it would feel like, (OK, I am STILL kind of curious about what it would feel like) but it is sort of a gross thing to do and I was kinda scared too. I think that if he had asked me to, I might have taken at least a quick feel.We had that long talk; you gave me some books about dating to read, and even made me talk to Pastor John.
She was recently caught planning a (highly unauthorized) heavy petting session with Fred, her aspiring boyfriend.You said that you will repeat that cycle for as long as necessary until I take full responsibility for my behavior. I was a little confused about this until you two had that long talk with me.I thought you would just be mad at me because I shaved myself under my panties, but now I know that it is much more than that.The truth is, I really didn’t want to talk to the Pastor at first, but then I found that it was easier to talk to him about some things that are hard for a kid to talk to her parents about (I hope you understand).But what I really understand now is how quickly I could have ended up having sex with Fred.